Settling In with Two
I had forgotten how tiring it is to have a newborn. And this time we're throwing a toddler into the mix, which makes things really exciting!
So far though I've only been alone with both kids for about 30 minutes on Saturday afternoon.
Brian was absolutely amazing last week. He played and played with Andrew. He made all our meals and cleaned up after us. He let me take naps and cuddle on the couch with Caroline.
But he's back to work and school this week. *sigh* Andrew was so sad when he left this morning, and so was I.
My mom came to spend the week with us though so I'm still not flying solo. Brian has class two nights this week so he'll be gone all day at work and then not home again until about 10PM. I just don't think I'm ready to handle dinner, bath and bedtime on my own yet so I'm very thankful she's here.
Mom is great at playing with Andrew and she does laundry, cooks dinner and cleans the kitchen. She's also just great company. I may be a little spoiled by the time she goes home next week. :)
Andrew seems to be handling the transition from only-child status surprisingly well. He's been a little grouchy on the days that he's refused to take a nap, but overall he hasn't been acting out too much.
Brian did bedtime duty all last week and then last night Andrew refused to go to bed. I went up to tuck him in again and he asked me to pat him and sing songs for a little bit.
I started to sing his old favorites and my crazy hormones raged and I cried. Sweet Andrew comforted me and assured me I would be okay. Here I was feeling sorry for him, and he was worried about me.
This motherhood thing sure is wonderful.
Caroline went in for a weight check today and she gained 7 ounces in 3 days. Go baby, go! She's a great nurser and I'm so pleased. Breastfeeding seems to be much easier the second time around.
And I know you really just want to see a picture of the baby. My sister helped me with a little mini shoot on Saturday and I captured this darling moment:
Could she be any cuter?
So far though I've only been alone with both kids for about 30 minutes on Saturday afternoon.
Brian was absolutely amazing last week. He played and played with Andrew. He made all our meals and cleaned up after us. He let me take naps and cuddle on the couch with Caroline.
But he's back to work and school this week. *sigh* Andrew was so sad when he left this morning, and so was I.
My mom came to spend the week with us though so I'm still not flying solo. Brian has class two nights this week so he'll be gone all day at work and then not home again until about 10PM. I just don't think I'm ready to handle dinner, bath and bedtime on my own yet so I'm very thankful she's here.
Mom is great at playing with Andrew and she does laundry, cooks dinner and cleans the kitchen. She's also just great company. I may be a little spoiled by the time she goes home next week. :)
Andrew seems to be handling the transition from only-child status surprisingly well. He's been a little grouchy on the days that he's refused to take a nap, but overall he hasn't been acting out too much.
Brian did bedtime duty all last week and then last night Andrew refused to go to bed. I went up to tuck him in again and he asked me to pat him and sing songs for a little bit.
I started to sing his old favorites and my crazy hormones raged and I cried. Sweet Andrew comforted me and assured me I would be okay. Here I was feeling sorry for him, and he was worried about me.
This motherhood thing sure is wonderful.
Caroline went in for a weight check today and she gained 7 ounces in 3 days. Go baby, go! She's a great nurser and I'm so pleased. Breastfeeding seems to be much easier the second time around.
And I know you really just want to see a picture of the baby. My sister helped me with a little mini shoot on Saturday and I captured this darling moment:
Could she be any cuter?
Labels: Andrew, Caroline, Motherhood, Photography
14 Comments:
Oh, my hormones are raging, too - that must be why I'm crying at the thought of you crying and Andrew comforting you...Right? Aren't little boys so sweet? We're such lucky women!
By Unknown, At August 22, 2011 at 11:40:00 PM CDT
That is great that your mom is in town to help out. My mom stayed for a whole month I think. It was great! And it sounds like your hubby is doing a great job of taking on the extra duties. It's always hard when they go back to work though. I remember feeling so lonely.
Such a sweet picture. You have to share more from the little photo shoot you did. :)
By Andrea, At August 22, 2011 at 11:40:00 PM CDT
You'll get there! So glad to hear you have some company. Gorgeous picture of your sweet girl.
By Colleen, At August 23, 2011 at 8:59:00 AM CDT
Oh my goodness...she is so cute! Love the headband! Congratulations!!!!
By Tara, At August 23, 2011 at 9:24:00 AM CDT
That photo is beautiful. Well done my friend!
By Ashley Sisk, At August 23, 2011 at 9:36:00 AM CDT
She is adorable! I will say that life with two is hard.. mine are 14 months apart and I think the whole first year was challenging. Having #2 makes looking back at #1 a sinch, uh? Crazy! I will say it's so amazing though as they get older and form such a bond. Enjoy it, cause the time just seems to pass too soon for me.
By Jamie Kubeczka, At August 23, 2011 at 10:24:00 AM CDT
Oh, Meagan! She is so beautiful!! I'm glad to hear that things are transitioning well for you guys! I know that you are an amazing mom and will be able to handle two kiddos just fine! Even though I'm almost an entire country away, let me know if you guys need ANYTHING!
By Courtney K., At August 23, 2011 at 11:10:00 AM CDT
You are doing a fabulous job photographing your sweet baby girl. She really is so beautiful! And I agree it really is wonderful.
By deb duty, At August 23, 2011 at 11:12:00 AM CDT
She's perfect! <3
Congrats on the new baby.
By Anonymous, At August 23, 2011 at 5:04:00 PM CDT
She really couldn't be any cuter! Congrats to you and your family. I'm sure you'll do fine when you are doing it solo! It's so nice to have family though isn't it?
By Cropped Stories, At August 23, 2011 at 7:54:00 PM CDT
She is so adorable, congrats
By Valeria, At August 23, 2011 at 11:55:00 PM CDT
One word: Perfection!
By Misty, At August 24, 2011 at 12:50:00 AM CDT
Melting from the cute!
By Coneflower Ranch, At August 24, 2011 at 12:43:00 PM CDT
the thing is this: it will be okay. my mom stayed with me for a MONTH after henry was born, and i was positive i would just DIE on my own. but actually, i was okay. your house will never be clean, you'll opt for mcdonald's more than you'd like to admit and you'll be exhausted, but it'll be okay. really. i promise.
By Sarah- Little Ark Photography, At August 26, 2011 at 7:03:00 AM CDT
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